I ran the idea past my old mentor, that moved to Fremont, CA, and he said "These days the tech market is pretty tough and getting an interview in a real big commercial company with a large market presence should not be sneezed at...I'd say try - at least do the interview, if the offer is decent say about $60k+, and your wife can find a job or be convinced - GO FOR IT !!!"
It would probably take a LOT more money than 60k to convince my wife to give up her posh job but we'll see. I'm just amazed I got a hit.